Regardless of the language, asking someone about their age can be a bit of a delicate or even embarrassing situation. The tip for those who are learning English and want to ask the question “How old are you?” in an appropriate context, it is always to keep a smile on your face and politeness in your speech.
In general, never start a conversation with the question, “How old are you?”. After all, there are different ways to start a conversation and get along without seeming ageist or impolite with the interlocutor. Wherever your location in the world, it is necessary to be careful when talking about someone’s age.
If it is absolutely essential to ask the question, make sure that your interlocutor is comfortable, in addition to redoubling attention to word choice, tone and even body language. Above all, remember that age is just a number and no one is obligated to answer anything.
With that in mind, here are some polite ways to bring up the issue:
- Would you mind if I asked how old you are?
- Would you mind telling me your age?
- May I ask how old you are?
- May I know how old you are?
- May I know your age?
- Do you mind if I ask your age?
- Do you mind telling me your age?
- How old are you?
- How old are you now?
- May I ask your age?
Anyone learning English knows that when starting a conversation, it is extremely important to understand the context and imagine how the person will react. So, if there’s a possibility that the person might be offended, don’t ask the question – especially to older people. But of course, many young people don’t like to discuss their age either, especially if they’re talking to someone for the first time. Finally, if this is the first time you’ve seen this person in your life, avoid this question entirely. Never judge someone by their age! A person’s maturity or youthfulness cannot be measured in numbers.